Lovelife.. Hmmmm.. It's been a long time since I wrote something about this. Okay, let me start talking. =)
I do have a boyfriend. Yes, i do.. and we are actually moving on our 5th year anniversary together. Yeebah!
As I recall, 5 years ago, we were on our "Cloud 9 years" as they call it. Happy all the time and seemed to be around each other always. But looking back to those years, the "cloud 9 moments" are gone. I'm not saying that we are in bad terms these days. No... It's just that I could say, that our relationship has gone into a level where in we both learned from our mistakes in the past. From childish relationship into a serious one. I could still recall when there are people who tried to destroy us, well, they nearly did... but thank God that we stayed strong together.
I realized that in relationship, two must be open with each other.. Yes, communication is very much essential in order to grow. It's hard sometimes to have a foreigner boyfriend, funny right? But it's true. He's not a showy sweet person, but he is sweet in his own ways. He's not like other boys who are clingy or demanding. In our age gap, since he is 10 years older than me, I could say that I've learned a lot of things from him. He is my first love. He's one of the dear people whom have taken out the best in me. He would let me do what i wanna do and not regretting on holding myself back, and if i do have some mistakes on the way, he would let me reflect on it. Yap, he's like that. He gives me freedom in what i want to do with my life. He is so supportive in many ways.
Even though that there are things that really pisses me off in some of his annoying ways, (well, agree with me on this that guys could just really hit our strings), he knows how to win me back. =) I know, I could say that he knows me very well now as i do about him.
Well, i am private with my love life but sometimes it's nice to write about something when it comes to love. I'm just hoping that one day, me and my boyfriend will finally tie the knots. hehe.. That is still a prayer for us. There are lots of things to consider pa. In God's time we will. So i think that's up for now. Am thinking of a gift for him on our 5th year anniversary. That will be on March 23.
So, do you guys have anything in mind to suggest???
Btw, thanks Nene and Kha for inviting me here. Blessings for you with your own love lives as well! muah! =)
belated happy anniv Nhing! :D
ReplyDeletethanks, kha!
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